Saturday, December 24, 2011


one day, Bella Gilbert brought her boyfriend, Edward to her family dinner.

while Bella was helping her mother in the kitchen, Edward was left with Mr. Gilbert to do the barbecue. Edward was very nervous and trying very hard to bring up comfortable conversation with Mr. Gilbert. but after a moment of silent, Edward was awakened with a conversation that he will never forget. only with a simple question, a sincere answer  and lead to a meaningful outcome.

Mr. Gilbert: do you love my daughter?

Edward: Yes Sir, with all my heart.

Mr. Gilbert: Good. then you should always remember that during your hard time with her. always.

People says mothers are much more connected with their children.
but, I guess fathers also have their own instinct. even they rarely show in front of the children.
or maybe never shown at all.

somehow, I think that is rather sweet and charming sides of you, dear fathers  :)

Sunday, December 11, 2011

~ MiRRoR tEsT ~

I am a big believer in the "mirror test".
All that matter is if you can look in the mirror and honestly tell the person you see there, that you've done your best.

my career life has give me new challenge that there is time when I feel to give up. undeniably, I realize we have had our ups and downs but that is what makes us different. Even though you may want to move forward in your life, there always something holding you back. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life.

After all, we survived, we're still here. That is when you know nothing can actually break you apart, it just makes you stronger and I honestly would not have it any other way.

for now, I'm learning to be free.